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www.mistressvenom.com Follow the day to day life of a lifestyle and professional Domina in Auckland, New Zealand. Fantasies, photos, fetishes, and slave training. This is now My full time blog. You can also see up to 1000 photos of My work on Fetlife https://fetlife.com/users/542651 username venomiss
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Friday, February 24, 2012
Golden showers and safety
In New Zealand, Golden showers are offered by many brothels and working girls. I on another forum often felt the need to add some comments and thought it was worth reworking into a blog on them and safety. I will not focus on the enjoyment of them or the erotic side as that is already well covered by many groups and authors.
The posts came about with men seeking escorts providing this service which lead to this comment from a girl I knew and was aware through Me of some of the risks:
"Hmmmmmm, I think this is a very dodgy activity to partake in if you aren't in a monogamous relationship with the person. Any punter who gets a golden shower from an escort is putting themselves at risk. You can easily pick up STIs (chlamydia, gonohrea) and urinary tract infections from working girls peeing on you. Don't forget - urine is a bodily fluid just like any other. Just a warning."
This had a reply from a lady advertising as a Pro Domme:
"Love your blog *********
Have to correct you on this one though....there is no scientific evidence I've found to suggest STIs can be transmitted through golden showers...urine is, in fact, sterile.
As for Urinary Tract Infections- they are a localized infection (almost always bacterial) of the urethra. They can't be caught from being peed on. Actually one of the ways to minimize risk of contracting UTIs, particularly in women (as we have shorter urethras), is to pee after sex lol.
It could be argued that peeing on someone after you've had sex with them is good for your reproductive health :P"
To which I had to reply:
"As the person who shared this info it is correct. Men do not show signs of UTIs and can pick them up from WG's urine. Have spoken to doctors about this. Urine is not sterile and this is a common way for such things to be passed. The big danger is that men do not show signs of a UTI and they can be far more serious. This is why I encourage all girls I know not to do GS unless they are willing to have up to date check ups frequently and that is not very easy. There are many things where research is non conclusive enough or the research publicly available does not clarify. That does not mean anything. If you would not exchange semen, feces, or blood with another human why would you exchange urine without been sure of their safety and health. As My wife lives overseas I am not sexually active nor have a history of UTIs but I still offer regular std testing for every extreme session dated and shown to clients. ***** thank you for passing on this knowledge and helping make others aware."
It was later brought up again and so I went into more detail. It is a worry that in a country where We have legal prostitution and golden showers are offered as a service that so few are aware of the issues. It is also more worrying to see Professional Dominants who are unaware of them. In fact while I am often under the microscope so to speak for been "too extreme" and therefore implying unsafe, that these same people are providing services without making clients aware of their own health practices. I will detail more after this.
"I have brought this topic up multiple times.
I keep bringing this up with working girls and people who own agencies but I never see statements that current dated std tests are provided or confirmation that a girl does not have a UTI which can be passed to clients and are serious in males. Some listen I hope.. but working girls have a lot of sex and are far more prone to bladder infections.
If not ingested then it is safer unless there is any areas with skin abrasions or sores. How can one be fully aware that there is no broken skin especially if a session has also involved CBT, NT or CP???
Hepatitis B can be found in the urine of infected persons, even those without symptoms. While drinking piss is unlikely to cause infection, golden showers onto areas of broken skin can cause passage of hepatitis B into the blood stream. Before you play, wipe an area of skin with alcohol. Does it sting? If so, there's a small skin break through which viruses could travel. Cytomegalovirus (CMV) is a very common virus which can cause an acute flu-like illness and may be passed intermittently in the urine, sometimes for years.
People with genital herpes may intermittently pass herpesvirus in the urine, whether or not they are having an outbreak and whether or not they know they are infected. A client who is pissed on with herpes-containing urine could become infected via a skin wound, developing a lesion called herpes gladiatorum. This can come back over and over and over, just like genital herpes or a cold sore. As a note 1 in 5 Americans have herpes not sure of the NZ statistics.
Chlamydia is a bacterium which causes what used to be known as nonspecific urethritis or nongonococcal cervicitis. Chlamydia is the most common STD. Both chlamydia and gonorrhea may be found in the urine of infected people.
Also fungal infections that can be transmitted in the urine which may cause major infections in people with immune system illnesses. These include histoplasmosis, blastomycosis, and coccidiomycosis (valley fever). All three can be a major pain in the ass to get rid of, and in a person with severe immunosuppression can be life-threatening.
Some medications or recreational drugs taken by the giver may end up in anyone drinking their urine. Some drugs don't end up in urine at all. Some are excreted by the kidneys only after being inactivated. However, some are passed in the urine either in their original form or a more active form and run the risk of showing up in the clients urine later on, perhaps during a drug test at work."
So here I am often looked down upon for the activities I enjoy. Although I make clients aware of safety and provide information. I also refuse to participate in these activities with first timers. Still how many have drunk a golden shower from a professional and never considered if that person uses drugs, or has a UTI or something worse. Have you ever thought to require them to be drug tested or provide a STD test result. As many work places require drug testing, and as this practice is so rampant perhaps those of you who have paid an escort or Pro Domme to urinate on you should get checked out.
I recently have been playing with kitty and she has brought up water sports. As We also have been playing with blood and this seems to be an on going relationship. I think I need to get Myself down to the clinic so We can move on and have fun with it. There I simply make a point that if you do promote safe practice then you will have no problem in taking the time to provide such evidence to the fact.
Enjoy and I hope you may have learned something from this.
Mistress Venom
The posts came about with men seeking escorts providing this service which lead to this comment from a girl I knew and was aware through Me of some of the risks:
"Hmmmmmm, I think this is a very dodgy activity to partake in if you aren't in a monogamous relationship with the person. Any punter who gets a golden shower from an escort is putting themselves at risk. You can easily pick up STIs (chlamydia, gonohrea) and urinary tract infections from working girls peeing on you. Don't forget - urine is a bodily fluid just like any other. Just a warning."
This had a reply from a lady advertising as a Pro Domme:
"Love your blog *********
Have to correct you on this one though....there is no scientific evidence I've found to suggest STIs can be transmitted through golden showers...urine is, in fact, sterile.
As for Urinary Tract Infections- they are a localized infection (almost always bacterial) of the urethra. They can't be caught from being peed on. Actually one of the ways to minimize risk of contracting UTIs, particularly in women (as we have shorter urethras), is to pee after sex lol.
It could be argued that peeing on someone after you've had sex with them is good for your reproductive health :P"
To which I had to reply:
"As the person who shared this info it is correct. Men do not show signs of UTIs and can pick them up from WG's urine. Have spoken to doctors about this. Urine is not sterile and this is a common way for such things to be passed. The big danger is that men do not show signs of a UTI and they can be far more serious. This is why I encourage all girls I know not to do GS unless they are willing to have up to date check ups frequently and that is not very easy. There are many things where research is non conclusive enough or the research publicly available does not clarify. That does not mean anything. If you would not exchange semen, feces, or blood with another human why would you exchange urine without been sure of their safety and health. As My wife lives overseas I am not sexually active nor have a history of UTIs but I still offer regular std testing for every extreme session dated and shown to clients. ***** thank you for passing on this knowledge and helping make others aware."
It was later brought up again and so I went into more detail. It is a worry that in a country where We have legal prostitution and golden showers are offered as a service that so few are aware of the issues. It is also more worrying to see Professional Dominants who are unaware of them. In fact while I am often under the microscope so to speak for been "too extreme" and therefore implying unsafe, that these same people are providing services without making clients aware of their own health practices. I will detail more after this.
"I have brought this topic up multiple times.
I keep bringing this up with working girls and people who own agencies but I never see statements that current dated std tests are provided or confirmation that a girl does not have a UTI which can be passed to clients and are serious in males. Some listen I hope.. but working girls have a lot of sex and are far more prone to bladder infections.
If not ingested then it is safer unless there is any areas with skin abrasions or sores. How can one be fully aware that there is no broken skin especially if a session has also involved CBT, NT or CP???
Hepatitis B can be found in the urine of infected persons, even those without symptoms. While drinking piss is unlikely to cause infection, golden showers onto areas of broken skin can cause passage of hepatitis B into the blood stream. Before you play, wipe an area of skin with alcohol. Does it sting? If so, there's a small skin break through which viruses could travel. Cytomegalovirus (CMV) is a very common virus which can cause an acute flu-like illness and may be passed intermittently in the urine, sometimes for years.
People with genital herpes may intermittently pass herpesvirus in the urine, whether or not they are having an outbreak and whether or not they know they are infected. A client who is pissed on with herpes-containing urine could become infected via a skin wound, developing a lesion called herpes gladiatorum. This can come back over and over and over, just like genital herpes or a cold sore. As a note 1 in 5 Americans have herpes not sure of the NZ statistics.
Chlamydia is a bacterium which causes what used to be known as nonspecific urethritis or nongonococcal cervicitis. Chlamydia is the most common STD. Both chlamydia and gonorrhea may be found in the urine of infected people.
Also fungal infections that can be transmitted in the urine which may cause major infections in people with immune system illnesses. These include histoplasmosis, blastomycosis, and coccidiomycosis (valley fever). All three can be a major pain in the ass to get rid of, and in a person with severe immunosuppression can be life-threatening.
Some medications or recreational drugs taken by the giver may end up in anyone drinking their urine. Some drugs don't end up in urine at all. Some are excreted by the kidneys only after being inactivated. However, some are passed in the urine either in their original form or a more active form and run the risk of showing up in the clients urine later on, perhaps during a drug test at work."
So here I am often looked down upon for the activities I enjoy. Although I make clients aware of safety and provide information. I also refuse to participate in these activities with first timers. Still how many have drunk a golden shower from a professional and never considered if that person uses drugs, or has a UTI or something worse. Have you ever thought to require them to be drug tested or provide a STD test result. As many work places require drug testing, and as this practice is so rampant perhaps those of you who have paid an escort or Pro Domme to urinate on you should get checked out.
I recently have been playing with kitty and she has brought up water sports. As We also have been playing with blood and this seems to be an on going relationship. I think I need to get Myself down to the clinic so We can move on and have fun with it. There I simply make a point that if you do promote safe practice then you will have no problem in taking the time to provide such evidence to the fact.
Enjoy and I hope you may have learned something from this.
Mistress Venom
Humiliation Play - Breaking it down because it was asked for
Humiliation Play - Breaking it down because it was asked for
In one of the local groups they were looking for answers about why people like humiliation play. It ended up been such a long answer.. I turned it into a blog. Enjoy
What do you consider humiliation play?
For Me humiliation play is a scene in which the bottom is going to not be but feel humiliated. I am making the statement of difference there because what is humiliating for one person may not be for another. Humiliation play is based around peoples fears, secret shames, and also a sexual arousal from been treated this way.
There is so many areas to humiliation play this a very hard one to put into such a blanket term. My wife for example is shy but she loves to be hooded, gagged, and bound and displayed in a humiliating way and shown to strangers. While I comment on how wet she is and check it as such. She hates it but at the same time is amazingly aroused by it. That is certainly a mild example of humiliation play and I would say the most common. For many it involves dressing a partner up who is ashamed to go out to a play party or in public in something they consider humiliating or embarrassing but they get off on it. Therefore it is a mutual enjoyment with the Dominant partner enabling them to either live it out or by knowing them well enough that it will bring them huge levels of sexual arousal.
Humiliation play also includes other areas such as cuckold play and cuckold racial play. Where a male partner usually is been humiliated for his sexual inadequacies by his partner having sexual relations with others in front of him while laughing at him or as you can put together adding in the race play element.
Humiliation sessions I have done can include focuses on sexual ability, genital size, lack of masculinity, size, race, age, intellect and more I can not think of. I also enjoy incorporating humiliation play into other sessions for example giving someone an enema and watching them making them very uncomfortable and embarrassed. For others it might be laughing at been able to over power them, pushing them to the ground, pulling your panties aside and pissing on them before gagging them with the used panties. The only limit to humiliation play is your imagination.
Humiliation play is also very psychological, preparing a good scene requires extensive knowledge of a partners psyche or many many questions, with careful listening. A lot of people who enjoy humiliation especially in men trace it back to a child hood incident. A female bullying them in school, in one case a group of girls peeing on a boy at a boarding school.. The early experiences while humiliating became a later sexual outlet that became exciting. The problem for most is finding someone who can one feel comfortable enough humiliating them, understand where the humiliation derives from and who can execute the scene without stopping because they feel bad or not been able to be sadistically nasty enough. It definitely takes a certain kind of Dominant or top to do humiliation play at a heavier level. One because it involves doing and saying things most would never consider doing to another person, and two because if you are going to play at a heavy level there is a whole area of risk assessment, preparation and the person has to be doing it as a mutually consensual experience not one the other is unprepared for or does not want.
Why are you attracted to humiliation play?
I am attracted to humiliation play because as My profile states I am an extreme Sadist. I enjoy psychological scenes that break down layers, I love the enjoyment of been able to be the bitch who can see into your thoughts, know what your thinking and turn you into a sniveling mess of a man who is at the same time sporting a rock hard erection :P or as in My wifes case.. soaking through the bloody mattress.
What are the risks or other consequences we should be aware of before participating in humiliation play?
Humiliation play is not something for beginners. I think the idea of young Dominants or Tops or even older ones deciding it is a great way to show off their new slave by using them in humiliating ways in public, in front of friends or in sessions is a very bad one. Humiliation play can have huge consequences both short and long term that if you are not willing to consider, be aware of and take care of, then you are crossing the line into abuse.
Before starting any humiliation session or any session involving any elements of it the first thing to explore is the persons history, past traumas, and how they feel about things like their education, looks, abilities as a slave etc. If you do no do this short term you can trigger a emotional meltdown and a severe mood swing which could be very dangerous and hard to deal with. Long term a slave could keep doing it to please the Dominant or top but it could be slowly eating away at them, destroying them more and more inside. Breaking a person like that mentally and to the soul is not the same thing as breaking in a slave. Nor is it the same as breaking someone in humiliation play or pain play where the tears come flooding as a cathartic release. There must as in all things be balance.
A person who loves you or who respects you and is a trustworthy play partner can healthily participate in humiliation scenes with you. If they know you, care for your feelings, ask questions and actually listen you are on the start to finding someone safe to explore humiliation play. If on the other hand they want to write pig whore all over your body and make you drink their piss for their friends amusement or the internets without having a relationship with you. One they are abusing you, and two you are the kind of person I would never do humiliation play with I would instead recommend you to a therapist, explain why and help you try to understand where I am coming from with My experiences.
There is 2 kinds of people who seek to be humiliated, those who get genuine enjoyment from the kink and abuse. Those who have poor self esteem, mental health issues and are easy prey for predators.
Does humiliation play require an extra level of aftercare?
This depends like all aftercare some people require lots some people seem to be just fine without it, some go years without needing it and then one day have a session where they do. If as above you are either in a healthy loving relationship, or two playing with a person who is humiliating you because you both enjoy it then you will as with all after care be able to look at the person sit down and talk for a bit, check in on the areas you focused on and then make the judgment of whether they need more time or reassurance or if they just had a blast and are great. Still it is an area where I take extra care to repeat that if in the next day or week any feelings of depression or mood changes occur to be in contact immediately. This is the same for all play where there is more psychological than physical involved.
What are some humiliation scenes (either that you have heard of or that you desire)?
I think i have covered this :)
Does this fall into the consensual/non-consent realms? Or does it only occur (for you) after careful planning and negotiation before each scene?
Again I think i have covered this also.. If it is a loving consensual relationship and it is not an agreed apon hard limit then no reason why it should be considered non consensual. In casual ones it requires careful negotiation to make sure lines are not crossed.
Is all humiliation play degradation play as well?
What is degradation play?
Degradation
1.
the act of degrading.
2.
the state of being degraded.
Synonyms
2. humiliation, disgrace, dishonor, debasement.
Humiliation
1.
an act or instance of humiliating or being humiliated.
2.
the state or feeling of being humiliated; mortification.
Synonyms
2. degradation, dishonor.
No difference for Me except I feel that degradation in BDSM refers to harder scenes.
Hope I was able to help.
Feel free to ask questions.
Mistress Venom
In one of the local groups they were looking for answers about why people like humiliation play. It ended up been such a long answer.. I turned it into a blog. Enjoy
What do you consider humiliation play?
For Me humiliation play is a scene in which the bottom is going to not be but feel humiliated. I am making the statement of difference there because what is humiliating for one person may not be for another. Humiliation play is based around peoples fears, secret shames, and also a sexual arousal from been treated this way.
There is so many areas to humiliation play this a very hard one to put into such a blanket term. My wife for example is shy but she loves to be hooded, gagged, and bound and displayed in a humiliating way and shown to strangers. While I comment on how wet she is and check it as such. She hates it but at the same time is amazingly aroused by it. That is certainly a mild example of humiliation play and I would say the most common. For many it involves dressing a partner up who is ashamed to go out to a play party or in public in something they consider humiliating or embarrassing but they get off on it. Therefore it is a mutual enjoyment with the Dominant partner enabling them to either live it out or by knowing them well enough that it will bring them huge levels of sexual arousal.
Humiliation play also includes other areas such as cuckold play and cuckold racial play. Where a male partner usually is been humiliated for his sexual inadequacies by his partner having sexual relations with others in front of him while laughing at him or as you can put together adding in the race play element.
Humiliation sessions I have done can include focuses on sexual ability, genital size, lack of masculinity, size, race, age, intellect and more I can not think of. I also enjoy incorporating humiliation play into other sessions for example giving someone an enema and watching them making them very uncomfortable and embarrassed. For others it might be laughing at been able to over power them, pushing them to the ground, pulling your panties aside and pissing on them before gagging them with the used panties. The only limit to humiliation play is your imagination.
Humiliation play is also very psychological, preparing a good scene requires extensive knowledge of a partners psyche or many many questions, with careful listening. A lot of people who enjoy humiliation especially in men trace it back to a child hood incident. A female bullying them in school, in one case a group of girls peeing on a boy at a boarding school.. The early experiences while humiliating became a later sexual outlet that became exciting. The problem for most is finding someone who can one feel comfortable enough humiliating them, understand where the humiliation derives from and who can execute the scene without stopping because they feel bad or not been able to be sadistically nasty enough. It definitely takes a certain kind of Dominant or top to do humiliation play at a heavier level. One because it involves doing and saying things most would never consider doing to another person, and two because if you are going to play at a heavy level there is a whole area of risk assessment, preparation and the person has to be doing it as a mutually consensual experience not one the other is unprepared for or does not want.
Why are you attracted to humiliation play?
I am attracted to humiliation play because as My profile states I am an extreme Sadist. I enjoy psychological scenes that break down layers, I love the enjoyment of been able to be the bitch who can see into your thoughts, know what your thinking and turn you into a sniveling mess of a man who is at the same time sporting a rock hard erection :P or as in My wifes case.. soaking through the bloody mattress.
What are the risks or other consequences we should be aware of before participating in humiliation play?
Humiliation play is not something for beginners. I think the idea of young Dominants or Tops or even older ones deciding it is a great way to show off their new slave by using them in humiliating ways in public, in front of friends or in sessions is a very bad one. Humiliation play can have huge consequences both short and long term that if you are not willing to consider, be aware of and take care of, then you are crossing the line into abuse.
Before starting any humiliation session or any session involving any elements of it the first thing to explore is the persons history, past traumas, and how they feel about things like their education, looks, abilities as a slave etc. If you do no do this short term you can trigger a emotional meltdown and a severe mood swing which could be very dangerous and hard to deal with. Long term a slave could keep doing it to please the Dominant or top but it could be slowly eating away at them, destroying them more and more inside. Breaking a person like that mentally and to the soul is not the same thing as breaking in a slave. Nor is it the same as breaking someone in humiliation play or pain play where the tears come flooding as a cathartic release. There must as in all things be balance.
A person who loves you or who respects you and is a trustworthy play partner can healthily participate in humiliation scenes with you. If they know you, care for your feelings, ask questions and actually listen you are on the start to finding someone safe to explore humiliation play. If on the other hand they want to write pig whore all over your body and make you drink their piss for their friends amusement or the internets without having a relationship with you. One they are abusing you, and two you are the kind of person I would never do humiliation play with I would instead recommend you to a therapist, explain why and help you try to understand where I am coming from with My experiences.
There is 2 kinds of people who seek to be humiliated, those who get genuine enjoyment from the kink and abuse. Those who have poor self esteem, mental health issues and are easy prey for predators.
Does humiliation play require an extra level of aftercare?
This depends like all aftercare some people require lots some people seem to be just fine without it, some go years without needing it and then one day have a session where they do. If as above you are either in a healthy loving relationship, or two playing with a person who is humiliating you because you both enjoy it then you will as with all after care be able to look at the person sit down and talk for a bit, check in on the areas you focused on and then make the judgment of whether they need more time or reassurance or if they just had a blast and are great. Still it is an area where I take extra care to repeat that if in the next day or week any feelings of depression or mood changes occur to be in contact immediately. This is the same for all play where there is more psychological than physical involved.
What are some humiliation scenes (either that you have heard of or that you desire)?
I think i have covered this :)
Does this fall into the consensual/non-consent realms? Or does it only occur (for you) after careful planning and negotiation before each scene?
Again I think i have covered this also.. If it is a loving consensual relationship and it is not an agreed apon hard limit then no reason why it should be considered non consensual. In casual ones it requires careful negotiation to make sure lines are not crossed.
Is all humiliation play degradation play as well?
What is degradation play?
Degradation
1.
the act of degrading.
2.
the state of being degraded.
Synonyms
2. humiliation, disgrace, dishonor, debasement.
Humiliation
1.
an act or instance of humiliating or being humiliated.
2.
the state or feeling of being humiliated; mortification.
Synonyms
2. degradation, dishonor.
No difference for Me except I feel that degradation in BDSM refers to harder scenes.
Hope I was able to help.
Feel free to ask questions.
Mistress Venom
Sunday, May 29, 2011
New Dungeon Suspension Rack + Table updates
Ok a few little tidbits... I was waiting to finish up everything before sharing but Ok could not resist the 2/3rd finished Dungeon and the almost completed new over-sized suspension rack & table. The back rack will be in galvanized iron that will be removable at each point to make for interesting uses.. And more hooks are needed and finishing touches on woodwork including a sign..
Looking forward to hanging up there anyone ;)
Call 021 1797035 for a booking! New photos of Mistress added to www.southernvenom.com
Looking forward to hanging up there anyone ;)
Call 021 1797035 for a booking! New photos of Mistress added to www.southernvenom.com
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
NZX Magazine Features Mistress Venom + Mummification + Rubber Fun
http://www.nzxmag.co.nz/news/view/279
http://www.southernvenom.com
Hello all,
Sorry for the long delay between updates but I have been very very busy! Now if anyone else needs their copy of the latest issue of NZX magazine signed give Me a call and bring it along to a session.
Right now I am really enjoying Auckland and have been spending the day working on some rather extreme mummifications. I am looking forward to some new colored wrap coming in from the US and got quite a few new devices.. In the photos I will post you can admire the use of some lovely ratchet tie downs to create some very severe and tight bondage!
I have also had far more opportunities to rubber up and took some new photos yesterday so this will be a photo laden thread! I am back to using My old number 0211797035 if you need to make a booking. Coming soon to the Dungeon a new heavy duty suspension frame and swing and in progress a circular leather st andrews cross.. Will keep this updated!
Please note while NZG does not allow Me to show My rates are for 90 minute sessions they are.. I find one hour is never enough and as always remember if you come to see Me, let Me know if you have to leave on time or you might find yourself released and that the moon is out :P
For those following the documentary and My upcoming Australian 2011 Scat tour join My fan club here:
Mistress Venom - Extreme Domina Fan Club documentary watch http://fetlife.com/groups/32380
Female Scat Queens International http://fetlife.com/groups/32156
Do not forget to send Me a friends request :) http://fetlife.com/users/542651
Now for the photos....
Mummification with slave dolly:
And.... Mistress..
ENJOY!!! And I look forward to tying you all up sometime soon.. or well really depends on what takes My fancy :P
Mistress Venom
http://www.southernvenom.com
Hello all,
Sorry for the long delay between updates but I have been very very busy! Now if anyone else needs their copy of the latest issue of NZX magazine signed give Me a call and bring it along to a session.
Right now I am really enjoying Auckland and have been spending the day working on some rather extreme mummifications. I am looking forward to some new colored wrap coming in from the US and got quite a few new devices.. In the photos I will post you can admire the use of some lovely ratchet tie downs to create some very severe and tight bondage!
I have also had far more opportunities to rubber up and took some new photos yesterday so this will be a photo laden thread! I am back to using My old number 0211797035 if you need to make a booking. Coming soon to the Dungeon a new heavy duty suspension frame and swing and in progress a circular leather st andrews cross.. Will keep this updated!
Please note while NZG does not allow Me to show My rates are for 90 minute sessions they are.. I find one hour is never enough and as always remember if you come to see Me, let Me know if you have to leave on time or you might find yourself released and that the moon is out :P
For those following the documentary and My upcoming Australian 2011 Scat tour join My fan club here:
Mistress Venom - Extreme Domina Fan Club documentary watch http://fetlife.com/groups/32380
Female Scat Queens International http://fetlife.com/groups/32156
Do not forget to send Me a friends request :) http://fetlife.com/users/542651
Now for the photos....
Mummification with slave dolly:
And.... Mistress..
ENJOY!!! And I look forward to tying you all up sometime soon.. or well really depends on what takes My fancy :P
Mistress Venom
Saturday, March 19, 2011
Goodbye Christrchurch on Sunday
Don't forget My old blog was not lost.. for many more photos, session ideas, photos of My work, and My fantasies read back on http://nzescortsblog.com/mistressvenom.php
I am both sad and happy to say My last night in Christchurch is Sunday. I leave on Monday at 7am.
Thank you to the moving company in Auckland, I have 3 slaves helping to get My dungeon there ready right away and will be available in Auckland in Eden Terrace just minutes from Auckland city CBD, from Tuesday.
I am launching a huge double dungeon, a medical klinic, and full suspension options.
I have heard from 95% of My local clients and I will keep My Christchurch tributes the same and will be able to offer overnight accommodation for a small fee. I can not wait to see you all more. Available 7 days at reasonable hours. I look forward to a new spinning st Andrews circular cross among other fun..
Please ask first as not everything will be ready in the first week. Location is near eden terrace with off street parking by eden terrace.
Watch out Auckland here I come....
VENOM
Mistress Venom Still available and dungeon OK
http://www.southernvenom.com
Hi everyone,
It has taken this long to check in... in the central city We have no power, water, toilets and this may continue for up to 2 months... worst case scenario.
It is really bad. Not just sitting in the dark, with no water, no phones working right, no way to cook.. its just horrible. Friends dead. The city is destroyed. Cracks opened up. I was inside and everything went flying and broke into pieces.
Still I am alive just a very different life without convenience.
But people are lost and gone.. if anyone needs Me for work.. I am charging 7 cell phones right now and you can try and contact Me I am going to work to use power there.
Stay safe all other locals. If anyone needs anything.. I will be trying to check in when I can...
A sad sad sad time
Mistress Venom
Friday, October 22, 2010
Mistress Venom Bustiest Mistress in NZ?
http://www.southernvenom.info
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I brought a new sun dress today as the heat here is really beginning to pick up and I had spent the morning fighting in thigh high leather boots, leather gloves, and a leather jacket.. A quick trip to the mall and I was tempted by a flowy sundress made of a nice cool material.. Getting home to put it on created a war... My breasts versus the sundress.. It was a struggle but now they are ummmm sort of in :P hah!
I was given a gorgeous PVC gown by a very sweet girl for My birthday and the breasts are just as much of a fight with that one.. I won't be wearing the sundress at work, but you may be seeing the PVC black ballgown!!
VENOM
http://www.southernvenom.biz use these links if http://www.southernvenom.com is not up!!
I brought a new sun dress today as the heat here is really beginning to pick up and I had spent the morning fighting in thigh high leather boots, leather gloves, and a leather jacket.. A quick trip to the mall and I was tempted by a flowy sundress made of a nice cool material.. Getting home to put it on created a war... My breasts versus the sundress.. It was a struggle but now they are ummmm sort of in :P hah!
I was given a gorgeous PVC gown by a very sweet girl for My birthday and the breasts are just as much of a fight with that one.. I won't be wearing the sundress at work, but you may be seeing the PVC black ballgown!!
VENOM
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
WHEN
"A trained slave has to do exactly as she is told every time, perfectly or the slave must face the consequences of disobedience, / poor performance. Mistress's customers are their for Her income and the slaves submission is to be used to assist in any way with Her Owners business."
-WHEN-
When Mistress tells bitch to jump, the only answer is, "Yes Mistress how high?"
When Mistress tells bitch to open her legs to be fucked the only answer is,"yes Mistress is that wide enough?"
When Mistress tells bitch she will have needles pierce her tits the only answer is, "Yes Mistress how many?"
When Mistress tells bitch she is to be beaten the only answer is, "Yes Mistress how many lashes or cuts?"
When Mistress tells bitch to submit to an enema the only answer is, "Yes Mistress, how many litres and how long should she hold it in for?"
When Mistress tells bitch she is to be placed in bondage the only answer is, "Yes Mistress for how long?"
When Mistress tells bitch to attend to her at a certain time and date, the only answer is, "Yes Mistress at what time and seamed stockings or not?"
-WHEN-
When Mistress tells bitch to jump, the only answer is, "Yes Mistress how high?"
When Mistress tells bitch to open her legs to be fucked the only answer is,"yes Mistress is that wide enough?"
When Mistress tells bitch she will have needles pierce her tits the only answer is, "Yes Mistress how many?"
When Mistress tells bitch she is to be beaten the only answer is, "Yes Mistress how many lashes or cuts?"
When Mistress tells bitch to submit to an enema the only answer is, "Yes Mistress, how many litres and how long should she hold it in for?"
When Mistress tells bitch she is to be placed in bondage the only answer is, "Yes Mistress for how long?"
When Mistress tells bitch to attend to her at a certain time and date, the only answer is, "Yes Mistress at what time and seamed stockings or not?"
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
NZ Escorts Blog Closed Down - NEW Mistress Venom Blog
Greetings slaves and fans...
Sadly the New Zealand Escort Blog site I had blogged on for over a year is GONE. I am trying to recover My lost blog posts. However now it is time for a fresh start! I can now blog again! and keep you all uptodate with My lifestyle, toys, fantasies and special deals!
Email: mistress.venom (@) gmail d0t com.
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