Racial Play or Race play and what it means

Racial Play or Race play and what it means


So since I have had a couple of emails on this subject recently, and a comment on My crushpets profile where he describes himself as My brown Butler and Myself as his Superior white Goddess it seemed a good time to write a blog on the subject. Racial play is one of the misunderstood and murky areas in the BDSM community that often brings tensions high. The tensions are easy to understand and I am often amused that the same people who find racial play so wrong are happy to accept rape play and rape fantasies as an acceptable form of play.

This is actually a good carry on from My blog on humiliation play as racial play is a form of it and I believe it was one thing I mentioned there. I was first introduced to racial play at a young age and without having put much thought into there been an actual term to describe it. About 8 years ago maybe nice, see I am aging quickly :) I was contacted by a Doctor in Israel. He confessed to me his fantasies about cross dressing and a particular obsession with boots. As time passed he confessed even more that as an orthodox Jew his main sexual fantasy was around having a Female dress up as a Nazi SS officer complete with boots and to humiliate him around his heritage. This fantasy involved been forced to perform perverse acts to maintain his freedom and also to have to cum on his food and consume it to escape starvation unlike other prisoners.

At the time My young brain quickly brushed over the moral right and wrong and went straight to the sexual enjoyment. I was excited and aroused mentally and physically by the evil nature of the fantasy and the call of the taboo. Still for those in their late teens and early twenties We were well versed in WWII history and the holocaust. The war crime trials were still on going and the horrors perpetrated on all sides were still a fresh gouge in world history. Still while I knew I was getting a thrill out of this because it was taboo I did not feel wrong for doing it. It fit right into place with My enjoyment of humiliating men, military and interrogation. Since I spent time in Austria and Germany I became even more fascinated with Nazi role play and SS uniforms and enjoyed using wehrmacht protocol as part of My slave training regimes.

Over the years I had many opportunities to participate in German sessions based around interrogation and military themes and all of the play partners seemed as excited as I was by adding in Nazi themes. For many the idea of a cruel German Nazi SS officer torturing them was the ultimate turn on even if them as i were only considering it as role play and not racial play. At that young age I had not considered it as a separate fetish simply a combination of military and humiliation fantasy.

As the years passed racial play made its emergence in porn and although one can argue that has been there all along, i will leave that for another blog. Racial sites popped up all over as it seemed a natural progression for humiliation porn to head in. Again I can mention My friend Duke as at this time I began to realise the anger and hatred towards enjoyment of this fetish. One of his sites is focused on humiliating black women in derogatory terms and also using things like white flour and such in some of the more extreme videos. i got involved in some discussions and was really amazed to see that not only the vanilla community were so angry but fellow fetishists. I knew Duke had had a girlfriend of many years and she just happened to be black. He is also one of the least racist people I know, he is just doing his job providing wank material for perverts like Me who enjoy the racial play.

I remember him bringing up why the anger directed at his site for white men humiliating black women did not provoke a similar response to black men on wifewriting who abused white women in racial play writing all over their bodies. This of course is rather obvious the wounds of slavery and pre civil war times are still very fresh for many. However in saying that what Jewish family does not consider their losses in the holocaust as painful.

Areas of racial play that are commonly explored are:
- Nazi Jewish scenarios
- Holocaust reenactment
- Medical scenarios with nazi scientists
- White slaves seeking to be degraded by black Owners
- White sluts for breeding by black men
- Black slaves to serve White Owners
- Black slavery historical reenactment
- Asian humiliation play mainly focused on cuckolding or penis humiliation.

These are all areas that fit in with history and racial stereotyping. Racial play can be any kind of scene that both are happy with. For My crushpet and I it is the idea of him as a butler or a pool boy that I can tease and abuse as he desires to be wanted by his White Mistress but is instead tortured and humiliated. Ask him if he feels it is consensual and fun.. ask him if it has long term made him unhappy or if he feels I see him as a lesser being than Me.. He is My dear and loving slave and as a person My equal and one who choses to serve Me and I love him for it. The worst torture for him is not Me calling him a useless spic who neglected to clean the leaves out of the pool or enjoying telling guests how hard it is to find good help with these immigrant workers :P He will tell you the worst torture is when i take My feet away :D The rest of it just keeps him permanently aroused.

And there we have it some of us just found that the taboo factor in Our races was also able to become something that brought erotic enjoyment. Hopefully more people will try to understand this is simply another form of BDSM play it is up to you whether you enjoy it or not.

This though is where the fetish is misunderstood and why porn is allowed to be produced and why it is not illegal for someone to have racial scenes with a consenting partner. The courts made it very clear there is a huge difference in actresses playing under age school girls in adult movies, as much as they differentiate a rape scene in a movie from an actual rape.

So here I ask My many readers and friends, due to My enjoyment of Nazi role play, been worshiped by black slaves and enacting historical role play, or taking enjoyment in small penis humiliation of a few asian slaves based on their race. Am I the person on your friends list a racist?

If your answer is yes, then you do not know Me well at all, but if it is Yes then are the people on your friends list who like to be the rapists in rape fantasies rapists? Are the mommys and daddys who like to do age play with their partners pedophiles?

This is certainly a fetish many feel discomfort with and do not want to see such a scene or participate in one. That is fine I also do feel the need to have a romantic night with rose petals, candles and "loveeeee making". Instead give Me a pair of 6 inch stiletto shiny boots and get down on your knees and give them a propr spit polish. Then I may decide to save your life, or buy your from that evil plantation Owner.. But of course only if that is what gets you off too. Otherwise we can stick to bondage, CBT, feet or whatever it is that floats your boat. I might give you a funny look though if you ask Me to rape you.. Did you suggest I commit a crime??? or are We negotiating a scene.. So with My usual sardonic humor I will end this blog and hope I have enlightened you a little more on why those of us into race play enjoy it.

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Recent bondage and photos of My work 2012

It has been a while since I added new photos. So enjoy some of My work in rope, shibari, needles, and canes from the past two months!! So lots of bondage, needle play on males and a female. The male photo took 4 hours and was 158 needles. Lots of mummification and some catheter play enjoy.
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Golden showers and safety

In New Zealand, Golden showers are offered by many brothels and working girls. I on another forum often felt the need to add some comments and thought it was worth reworking into a blog on them and safety. I will not focus on the enjoyment of them or the erotic side as that is already well covered by many groups and authors.

The posts came about with men seeking escorts providing this service which lead to this comment from a girl I knew and was aware through Me of some of the risks:
"Hmmmmmm, I think this is a very dodgy activity to partake in if you aren't in a monogamous relationship with the person. Any punter who gets a golden shower from an escort is putting themselves at risk. You can easily pick up STIs (chlamydia, gonohrea) and urinary tract infections from working girls peeing on you. Don't forget - urine is a bodily fluid just like any other. Just a warning."

This had a reply from a lady advertising as a Pro Domme:

"Love your blog *********
Have to correct you on this one though....there is no scientific evidence I've found to suggest STIs can be transmitted through golden showers...urine is, in fact, sterile.
As for Urinary Tract Infections- they are a localized infection (almost always bacterial) of the urethra. They can't be caught from being peed on. Actually one of the ways to minimize risk of contracting UTIs, particularly in women (as we have shorter urethras), is to pee after sex lol.
It could be argued that peeing on someone after you've had sex with them is good for your reproductive health :P"

To which I had to reply:
"As the person who shared this info it is correct. Men do not show signs of UTIs and can pick them up from WG's urine. Have spoken to doctors about this. Urine is not sterile and this is a common way for such things to be passed. The big danger is that men do not show signs of a UTI and they can be far more serious. This is why I encourage all girls I know not to do GS unless they are willing to have up to date check ups frequently and that is not very easy. There are many things where research is non conclusive enough or the research publicly available does not clarify. That does not mean anything. If you would not exchange semen, feces, or blood with another human why would you exchange urine without been sure of their safety and health. As My wife lives overseas I am not sexually active nor have a history of UTIs but I still offer regular std testing for every extreme session dated and shown to clients. ***** thank you for passing on this knowledge and helping make others aware."

It was later brought up again and so I went into more detail. It is a worry that in a country where We have legal prostitution and golden showers are offered as a service that so few are aware of the issues. It is also more worrying to see Professional Dominants who are unaware of them. In fact while I am often under the microscope so to speak for been "too extreme" and therefore implying unsafe, that these same people are providing services without making clients aware of their own health practices. I will detail more after this.

"I have brought this topic up multiple times.
I keep bringing this up with working girls and people who own agencies but I never see statements that current dated std tests are provided or confirmation that a girl does not have a UTI which can be passed to clients and are serious in males. Some listen I hope.. but working girls have a lot of sex and are far more prone to bladder infections.

If not ingested then it is safer unless there is any areas with skin abrasions or sores. How can one be fully aware that there is no broken skin especially if a session has also involved CBT, NT or CP???

Hepatitis B can be found in the urine of infected persons, even those without symptoms. While drinking piss is unlikely to cause infection, golden showers onto areas of broken skin can cause passage of hepatitis B into the blood stream. Before you play, wipe an area of skin with alcohol. Does it sting? If so, there's a small skin break through which viruses could travel. Cytomegalovirus (CMV) is a very common virus which can cause an acute flu-like illness and may be passed intermittently in the urine, sometimes for years.

People with genital herpes may intermittently pass herpesvirus in the urine, whether or not they are having an outbreak and whether or not they know they are infected. A client who is pissed on with herpes-containing urine could become infected via a skin wound, developing a lesion called herpes gladiatorum. This can come back over and over and over, just like genital herpes or a cold sore. As a note 1 in 5 Americans have herpes not sure of the NZ statistics.

Chlamydia is a bacterium which causes what used to be known as nonspecific urethritis or nongonococcal cervicitis. Chlamydia is the most common STD. Both chlamydia and gonorrhea may be found in the urine of infected people.

Also fungal infections that can be transmitted in the urine which may cause major infections in people with immune system illnesses. These include histoplasmosis, blastomycosis, and coccidiomycosis (valley fever). All three can be a major pain in the ass to get rid of, and in a person with severe immunosuppression can be life-threatening.

Some medications or recreational drugs taken by the giver may end up in anyone drinking their urine. Some drugs don't end up in urine at all. Some are excreted by the kidneys only after being inactivated. However, some are passed in the urine either in their original form or a more active form and run the risk of showing up in the clients urine later on, perhaps during a drug test at work."

So here I am often looked down upon for the activities I enjoy. Although I make clients aware of safety and provide information. I also refuse to participate in these activities with first timers. Still how many have drunk a golden shower from a professional and never considered if that person uses drugs, or has a UTI or something worse. Have you ever thought to require them to be drug tested or provide a STD test result. As many work places require drug testing, and as this practice is so rampant perhaps those of you who have paid an escort or Pro Domme to urinate on you should get checked out.

I recently have been playing with kitty and she has brought up water sports. As We also have been playing with blood and this seems to be an on going relationship. I think I need to get Myself down to the clinic so We can move on and have fun with it. There I simply make a point that if you do promote safe practice then you will have no problem in taking the time to provide such evidence to the fact.

Enjoy and I hope you may have learned something from this.
Mistress Venom

Mummification part 2

When someone is wrapped so tightly they lose all balance and control. This is where LB became very importan and I instructed him as W/we went where to focus his hold. In the mean time I used the force of My body to support from the front while at the same time at often awkward angles reaching round to tape the back. At some points it made a very happy PD and one time worried. Once I said well if he fell he would have a soft landing My boobs, but he would kill Me and then My fan club would hunt him down and kill him for taking away Mistress, and after all what would My mother say about having to put in the eulogy "Beloved Daughter, died doing what she loved, Sadly a mummy collapsed on her and crushed her. She died happy though because it meant the last word in the eulogy is crush." hehe And th happy when the wrapping was at the top and he got great views of My cleavage which I took pains to display well in order to make him more eager to agree to My evil plans. Obviously it worked!

So as W/we reached the waist he was experiencing the feelings of wobbling and disorientation. I forgot to mention in part one but as W/we wrapped the chest he would have to take a deep breath in for each tape round and then release and repeat until the chest area was done. This is to allow ample room for breathing you do not want the chest cavity too tightly constricted. Soon but after what seemed like a life time My hair was damp, My legs ached, and I had had at least 3 dizzy spells. I was plotting in the back of My mind to put LD back on the bucket device as a little pay back. At this point W/we placed a large soft leather ottoman and I mean huge behind him and lowered him at a angle like a plank. Once he was down there, removed the ottoman and the new furniture was on the floor. I had also on each layer marked x's where his nipples and genital region were. He has low nipples and I like the cut holes to be neat.

Now LB could sit down only getting up to fetch more tape or to pick up discarded bits as I trimmed angles to match. I then went on to tape the feet, head and created the nun like look at the head.. I also cut out the marked regions and removed them for good access. I then finished the head adjusting the breathign hold and teasing him by blocking it.

At this point I needed a 5 minute break. So mummygirl was called over to say a quick hello to PD and admire My work, and she stayed with LB while I used the bathroom, and touched up My hair and makeup and took a breather before moving on to the catheter. I dismissed the other two then and went on to play with My furniture.

The only part I have forgotten to add is that My designs are often crazy, rather out there and different. Often I am executing them for the first time. During the process at one point PH expressed difficulty with the forearms. This is where having a metal vision of where the wrap is is important. Quickly the pressure was relieved by cutting away the area causing the issue. Then i chose a new approach to patch up the damage to the furniture :P It happened once more later on and at that point I just relieved the pressure and did not patch up as time was needed for other play.

When i mummify someone they always get lectured, they know what I want to be told if they experience certain things, even so I check in verbally frequently as sub space makes them less aware. During the whole process I fed him bottles of water.. only after making him cry like a baby for My amusement. Fluids were very important. That really is it, after when i cut him out I just had him lie there and reajust. After some time slowly sitting up, checking for any signs of dizziness. Time was spent moving and stretching limbs, and finally a shower followed by more moving and stretching and of course kissing Mistress's feet and heels which by that point sadly nail polish had scraped off from all My crawling round on the floor and I had specks of cardboard and duct tape on My stockings but I doubt My PD thought his Mistress was any less special for those things :P Then the usually big good bye hug and off he went with his big cheery smile.

I hope that helped answer some of the questions you asked in the phot comments etc.
In the end I used I do not know how much wrap, but 7.5 rolls of 30 meter silver duct tape, and a small amount of white cloth tape.

Enjoy
MV

New Dungeon Suspension Rack + Table updates

Ok a few little tidbits... I was waiting to finish up everything before sharing but Ok could not resist the 2/3rd finished Dungeon and the almost completed new over-sized suspension rack & table. The back rack will be in galvanized iron that will be removable at each point to make for interesting uses.. And more hooks are needed and finishing touches on woodwork including a sign..

Looking forward to hanging up there anyone ;)

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NZX Magazine Features Mistress Venom + Mummification + Rubber Fun

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Hello all,

Sorry for the long delay between updates but I have been very very busy! Now if anyone else needs their copy of the latest issue of NZX magazine signed give Me a call and bring it along to a session.

Right now I am really enjoying Auckland and have been spending the day working on some rather extreme mummifications. I am looking forward to some new colored wrap coming in from the US and got quite a few new devices.. In the photos I will post you can admire the use of some lovely ratchet tie downs to create some very severe and tight bondage!

I have also had far more opportunities to rubber up and took some new photos yesterday so this will be a photo laden thread! I am back to using My old number 0211797035 if you need to make a booking. Coming soon to the Dungeon a new heavy duty suspension frame and swing and in progress a circular leather st andrews cross.. Will keep this updated!

Please note while NZG does not allow Me to show My rates are for 90 minute sessions they are.. I find one hour is never enough and as always remember if you come to see Me, let Me know if you have to leave on time or you might find yourself released and that the moon is out :P

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Now for the photos....

Mummification with slave dolly:

And.... Mistress..

ENJOY!!! And I look forward to tying you all up sometime soon.. or well really depends on what takes My fancy :P

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New Dungeon in Auckland Finished - Magazine shoot end of month

Greetings fans,

Finally able to update.
The new dungeon and medical space in Auckland is finally finished! Well it was completed almost on Wednesday when I did a photo shoot for NZX magazine. Make sure to get a copy of next months issue to see the photos amd read the interview. I will have photos to post from the shoot next week for you perverts!

I am very excited with been able to build a dungeon from scratch, and as I am filming a documentary, photos have been taken of the entire process from bare wood frame, to a fully completed and equipped Dungeon and Medical area… I can not wait to see more of you in there.

I am now available Mon - Sat from 9am till 10pm. So give Me a call 021 179 7035 for a booking.

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Mistress Venom Goes Redhead :P

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I decided to become a redhead.. and got matching 8 inch platform heels and dress...

ENJOY...

New photos of the renovated dungeon coming soon - so much new exciting gear leather, rubber, electro... come and be punished.. P.S.. I am not as sweet as I look...

VENOM

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I brought a new sun dress today as the heat here is really beginning to pick up and I had spent the morning fighting in thigh high leather boots, leather gloves, and a leather jacket.. A quick trip to the mall and I was tempted by a flowy sundress made of a nice cool material.. Getting home to put it on created a war... My breasts versus the sundress.. It was a struggle but now they are ummmm sort of in :P hah!

I was given a gorgeous PVC gown by a very sweet girl for My birthday and the breasts are just as much of a fight with that one.. I won't be wearing the sundress at work, but you may be seeing the PVC black ballgown!!

VENOM

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My old blog is back... now readers can browse the 13 pages of blogs I have written since I started working Professionally in Christchurch...

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Earthquake Update - Mistress Venom Still Open for Business

Ok first of, work is fine.. will be open for work, you can still call to make bookings here in Christchurch. Everything survived.. This is the first chance I have had to update since the big quake on Saturday. Since then..

Three more big quakes... (Last night)

5:56am: The following quakes have been recorded since midnight. 4.7 at 12:21am; 3.9 at 12.51am; 3.1 at 2.52am; 3.7 at 3.14am; 5.4 at 3.24am; 3.5 at 4.17am; 3.9 at 5.14am

It was scary as shit last night - woke up everything creaking and moving like the original these were long quakes lasting over 30 seconds not exactly sure.. it was middle of the night. Luckily power stayed on... they have begun demolishing hundreds of buildings and started rebuilding roads but cash flow is now a huge issue for most people and the reality of it all is kicking in hard - no idea whats going to happen for so many people with no incomes coming in.

Scary the aftershocks last night - thought power would go out again... staying in today not risking been out now that supplies are stocked up and have water and power.

Happy to say the Dungeon and Medical Klinic have survived and nothing broke except for a candle holder. So keeping the dungeon open.. but will see what happens there. So Christchurch at least still has their Dominatrix.. Me.. Mistress Venom prepared to punish and humiliate to distract from what has happened!

Glad to see everyone I know is ok and survived! The maid and bitch maxine are unharmed and maid has done all the cleanup and will have some more to do at the dungeon likely after last night.. Will be going into work soon, (They are asking people to stay in if possible), to see if there has been further damage.

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UPDATE - popular time slots are already filling up. Ads running in local paper starting tomorrow. Blog readers have had an opportunity to get the best bookings. I appreciate all of you who take the time to follow My blogs and life.

I am looking forward to meeting new slaves and seeing regulars. Hopefully this week will give much material for future blogs, and fantasies to be lived out.

August 21st to August 30th Evening & Weekend Bookings available!
I am happy to announce that once again this year I will be offering a few days where I will be available day and night and weekend dates. If you want to book for this time period, do not leave it to the last minute as spots fill up fast.

This is always a great opportunity for those of you that can not fit into My usual monday to friday 9-6 hours. I look forward to seeing you in the dungeon or for a medical check up in My fully equipped fantasy clinic. Overnight bookings and complex sessions are also the perfect time to book in for.

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August 21st to August 30th Evening & Weekend Bookings available!

I am happy to announce that once again this year I will be offering a few days where I will be available day and night and weekend dates. If you want to book for this time period, do not leave it to the last minute as spots fill up fast.

This is always a great opportunity for those of you that can not fit into My usual monday to friday 9-6 hours. I look forward to seeing you in the dungeon or for a medical check up in My fully equipped fantasy clinic. Overnight bookings and complex sessions are also the perfect time to book in for.

Mistress V.
021 179 7035